Living with strangers in a shared apartment is not something most people are naturally accustomed to. When it comes to CoLiving, the concept might seem unfamiliar and even daunting. However, CoLiving offers a unique and enriching experience if approached with the right mindset. If you’re wondering whether this “CoLiving” setup has any particular rules or etiquette guidelines, the answer is a resounding YES. Following basic etiquette is crucial to creating a pleasant and harmonious environment for everyone sharing the space with you. If you’re anxious or have no previous experience with sharing a space, don’t worry—these guidelines are designed to help you adjust smoothly and make the most out of your CoLiving experience.

KUMMUNI: Building a Community #

At KUMMUNI, we believe that CoLiving is more than just a practical housing solution—it’s about building a community. We understand the challenges that come with living in a shared space, which is why we put a lot of effort into creating guidelines and providing support to ensure that every tenant feels at home. Our approach is centered around fostering a positive, respectful, and inclusive environment where everyone can thrive. We take pride in the fact that our CoLiving spaces are designed not just for convenience but for creating lasting connections and a strong sense of community among our tenants.

Be Approachable and Open #

One of the most important aspects of moving in with flatmates is making yourself approachable and open to interaction. You don’t have to be best friends with everyone, but being friendly and courteous helps build a comfortable living environment. Even if you’re introverted, a simple smile or greeting can go a long way in breaking the ice and establishing a connection with your flatmates.

Practical Tip: Try to initiate small conversations in communal spaces like the kitchen or living room. Asking how someone’s day went or offering to share a meal can help foster a warm and friendly atmosphere.

Understand Your Flatmates’ Preferences #

Getting to know your flatmates is not just about learning their names but also understanding their preferences and habits. This knowledge helps in avoiding unnecessary conflicts and creates a smoother living experience for everyone. Take the time to chat with your flatmates about their routines, likes, and dislikes, and share your own as well. This mutual understanding forms the basis for a peaceful and cooperative living arrangement.

Practical Tip: When you first move in, consider organizing a casual get-together where everyone can introduce themselves and share a bit about their routines and preferences.

Take Responsibility for Shared Spaces #

Responsibility is key in any shared living arrangement. This includes cleaning up after yourself in shared spaces like the kitchen, bathroom, and living room. Leaving dirty dishes in the sink or clutter in the living area not only creates a mess but also breeds resentment among flatmates. Being responsible for your own space and actions helps maintain a clean and orderly environment.

Practical Tip: After using shared spaces, make it a habit to tidy up immediately. This includes washing dishes, wiping down surfaces, and returning any communal items to their proper place.

Respect Privacy and Personal Boundaries #

In a CoLiving space, it’s easy for lines between personal and communal spaces to blur. However, respecting each other’s privacy and boundaries is essential for maintaining harmony. Whether it’s knocking before entering someone’s room or asking before borrowing an item, being mindful of personal boundaries shows respect for your flatmates.

Practical Tip: Establish clear boundaries early on, such as agreeing on whether it’s okay to borrow items or enter each other’s rooms. Clear communication about these boundaries can prevent misunderstandings and conflicts.

Value Mutual Respect #

Respecting each other’s differences is a cornerstone of successful CoLiving. Flatmates will likely come from diverse backgrounds and may have different lifestyles or beliefs. It’s important to treat everyone with respect and equality, even when you don’t agree with their views. This mutual respect helps create a positive and inclusive environment for everyone.

Practical Tip: Make an effort to understand your flatmates’ cultural backgrounds and personal beliefs. Showing interest and respect for their perspectives fosters a more inclusive and harmonious living environment.

Follow the House Rules #

When you move into a CoLiving space, there are usually house rules in place to ensure that the living arrangement runs smoothly. These rules could cover anything from quiet hours to guest policies. It’s important to familiarize yourself with these rules and adhere to them, as they are designed to create a balanced and respectful living environment.

Practical Tip: Review the house rules with your flatmates during your first meeting. Discuss any ambiguities or concerns to ensure everyone is on the same page.

Check Before Inviting Guests #

Before inviting guests over, it’s essential to check with your flatmates. Even if it’s just a couple of friends, having extra people in the apartment can disrupt the normal flow and comfort of the space. A quick check-in with your flatmates shows respect for their comfort and needs.

Practical Tip: Send a group message to your flatmates before inviting guests, and be considerate about noise levels and the use of shared spaces during your guests’ visit.

Keep Noise to a Minimum #

No matter how much you enjoy your music or TV shows, it’s important to be mindful of the noise levels in shared living spaces. What’s enjoyable to you might be disruptive to others, especially if it interferes with their work, study, or sleep.

Practical Tip: Invest in a good pair of headphones and use them when watching TV or listening to music, especially during quiet hours or when others are working or resting.

Respect the Quiet Hours #

Most CoLiving spaces have designated quiet hours to ensure that everyone can enjoy a peaceful environment. These hours are particularly important for those who have early mornings or late work shifts. Respecting quiet hours by keeping noise to a minimum helps everyone get the rest they need.

Practical Tip: Avoid loud conversations, media streaming, or noisy activities during quiet hours. If you need to work late or have an early call, try to do so in a way that minimizes disturbance to others.

Communicate Openly When Issues Arise #

Conflicts are inevitable in any shared living situation, but how you handle them makes all the difference. Addressing issues calmly and directly with the person involved is the best way to resolve conflicts. Avoid passive-aggressive behavior, as it only creates tension and prolongs the problem.

Practical Tip: If an issue persists after a conversation, consider bringing it up in a house meeting where everyone can discuss and agree on a solution.

KUMMUNI’s Commitment to Community #

At KUMMUNI, we place a strong emphasis on building a sense of community within our CoLiving spaces. We understand that creating a positive living environment requires effort, understanding, and mutual respect from everyone involved. That’s why we invest in resources and support systems to help our tenants navigate the challenges of shared living. We’re not just offering a place to live—we’re helping to create a community where everyone can feel comfortable, respected, and valued.

Practical Tip: Take advantage of the community-building resources and events organized by KUMMUNI. These are great opportunities to meet your flatmates, build connections, and become an active member of your living community.